When left alone, some dogs become very
distressed, suffering from an attachment disorder known as separation anxiety.
Dogs who suffer from separation anxiety just can’t learn to cope with being
alone, and they express their anxiety by barking, howling, whining, chewing,
soiling, and/or attempting to escape. Usually, you can diagnose separation
anxiety if the dog becomes anxious and worried or severely depressed as you
prepare to leave and acts as though you’ve been gone for years when you return!
Separation anxiety is often triggered by a traumatic event or disruption in the
dog’s lifestyle, such as a change in the family’s work schedule, an adjustment
in the family composition, the death of another pet, a move to a new home,
abandonment as a pup, or being boarded or hospitalized for a period of time.
Purebreds are more likely to suffer from separation anxiety than mixed breeds,
and adult dogs who have been re-homed are especially at risk.
What to do if your
Dog has Separation Anxiety:
- Whenever you are getting ready to leave the house, make
your routine less predictive and obvious. You can ignore the dog and /or
practice obedience behaviors, such as “Sit” and “Down Stay,”
- Leave you dog a special treat. When you leave
the house, give your dog a special treat or toy that they only get when you’re
gone. That way they can get excited about something. (Try stuffing a Kong with
peanut butter).
- Keep your departures and arrivals low key so the dog
doesn’t associate comings and goings with arousal and stress. (Avoid coddling
when you leave – and wait about 5 minuets before greeting your dog when you get
back).
- Practice short absences and gradually build up the time you
are gone.
- Use reward-based training, practice out-of-sight “Sit” and “Down
Stays” around the house so you can be in one room and the dog in another.
- When not training the dog and, until you have the problem
resolved, arrange for someone to be with the dog at all times when you are
away.
- Teach the dog mannerly ways to gain your attention, such as
“Sit,” “Down,” and “Bring a toy.” If your dog has learned to gain your
attention when you’re home by barking, pawing, and mouthing, then it should
come as no surprise that your dog has temper tantrums when you’re away.
- Give your dog plenty of physical exercise before leaving
your dog for lengthy periods of time, especially if you leave first thing in
the morning.
- Try leaving music or the TV on when you leave. White noise can
distract your dog from listening for your car or footsteps to return.
- Look into Crate training your dog. Being in a confined space
(den) will help them feel more safe and relaxed. Read about appropriate ways to
crate train your dog first).
What NOT to do if your Dog
has Separation Anxiety:
- Do not confuse your dog’s anxiety with revenge, spite, or
dominance. Your dog is genuinely upset and distressed and needs your help.
Punishment will only exacerbate the dog’s anxiety.
- Do not continue to confine your dog to a crate or room if
the dog is injuring himself trying to escape.
- Do not attempt to reduce your dog’s attachment to you by
constantly ignoring him. Some experts believe that “breaking the bond” will fix
separation anxiety. This can actually make the dog become even more desperate
for your affections. If done repeatedly, this approach can even be
inhumane—because canines so need social contact.
(Information in the article was referenced from
The ASPCA)